I am done listening.
Personal strategic planning begins with your determining what it is you believe in and stand for your values. Your values lie at the very core of everything you are as a human being. Your values are the unifying principles and core beliefs of your personality and your character. The virtues and qualities that you stand for are what constitute the person you have become from the beginning of your life to this moment.
Your values, virtues and inner beliefs are the axles around which the wheel of your life turns. All improvement in your life begins with you clarifying your true values and then committing yourself to live consistent with them.
If you look at what you have in life you will always have more but if you look at what you do not have then you will end up with nothing.
A heart without mind mean nothing, just like mind without a heart.
What people need to do is to find solution to the Land issue problem instead of confrontation.
Both black and white Namibian have the right to own land and settle anywhere within the Namibian borders.
The world is beautiful, but has a disease called LOVE
Love and Relationships.
long-distance relationship is the perfect answer to the level of
physical intimacy the couple wants or can tolerate. For others, the lack of contact
puts enormous strain on the relationship, making the partners vulnerable to conflict
and affairs if they don‟t make an adjustment in how they are living.
Both of you stay focused on your careers when you are working and on each
other when you are together. One of the advantages of a long-distance
arrangement is that when at the work, each of you will be totally immersed in the
demands of the job. The structure allows long days and late nights, without
worrying about the needs of the partner. This can be fine, as long as the same kind
of focus and time go into the couple when the couple is together. There‟s nothing
more destructive to a long-distance couple than the pull of a briefcase full of work
brought home from the job.
Couples that succeed put boundaries around their time together so that they have
the time and space for intimacy and renewal. If there‟s no getting away from
bringing some work home, these couples set aside time for both people to do
something separately so that neither partner feels like taking second place to work
during couple‟s time.
They consider carefully whether they have what it takes to add a “third career” to
the mix, I‟m talking about kids. Yes, people with children can manage a
relationship in which jobs keep the parents apart, but it is much, much harder
because there are three careers to juggle now, you have to be carefully here
because she will manage the three of you now, her job, you and raising the kids. A
very basic consideration is that the two-city relationship is a creation of gap and
loneliness for both of you. Kids don‟t choose it and mostly can‟t stand it, they need
time when they need it. No matter how well intentioned the adults are in terms of
giving the children “quality time” when they are around, the children‟s needs are
not likely to be on the same schedule.
Managing the situation so that the children can be attached to both parents and so
that the parents remain attached to each other is a far more complicated issue.
Suffice to say that it requires an enormous amount of commitment, attention, and
selflessness to make it work. The wise couple considers very carefully whether
they have the energy and devotion to stretch them even further. Don‟t just decide
to have a baby with her because you are jealous and scared maybe she will get
someone else and you decide to keep her to yourself with the baby. Plan first. That
child won‟t keep her attached to you, if she wants to leave you she will just leave
you and can‟t do anything about it.